Does the boyfriend love or use you...? How to understand a boyfriend take an advantage of you?
Does the boyfriend love or take an advantage of you...? How to understand a boyfriend take an advantage of you?
In the previous article, we told you about the main signs that a man has serious intentions and he is ready to marry a woman. They work perfectly.
In this article, we will tell you about the most noticeable signs that a man unconsciously sends to a woman he DOESN’T want to marry. He doesn’t have serious intentions towards her and isn’t ready to marry her.
Then a woman feels that something is wrong with their relationships... and ask herself a question: “Does the boyfriend love or take an advantage of me?”
Over the years of professional activity as the specialists of the matchmaking agency 'Happy life” we can surely claim that there is a 99% chance of these statements to be true and confirmed by our personal experience, feedbacks by the men, so as a result, these statements are statistical.
So what boyfriend’s actions tell that he doesn’t love you, but just take an advantage of you to reach his own comfort:
- The first sign. A boyfriend doesn’t seek to spend all his free time with a woman. At the weekend he can use a necessary meeting with a colleague, business partner or a family member he hasn’t met for a long time and the meeting with whom is vital as an excuse. It doesn’t matter for him if a woman asks and beg him to stay, because it's important for her to be with him. A man, who ignores a woman's requests, doesn’t respect her opinion and doesn’t care about it. Her feelings are not so important to him. He put his own comfort and business first.
- The second clear sign that a boyfriend uses a woman, but doesn’t plan to be in a long-term relationship with her is that he doesn’t introduce her to his close friends, family members and co-workers. Or if a woman meets his friends, he doesn’t show good feelings towards her, acting discreet and cold.
- The third sign is very important! During showdowns or conflicts (every couple has this kind of experience) he is not shy about using assaulting, pejorative and insulting words towards a woman or her family. In the 99% of cases, it's a clear sign that a man doesn’t care about a woman's feelings, doesn’t respect her and doesn’t afraid to insult and, as a result, to lose her. For a man, the woman he is insulting doesn’t so valuable. More possible that this man is a bully and he just uses a woman's blind love, understanding that she will stand it and forgive him.
- A boyfriend “disappears” without notification for days, his mobile phone can be turned off or be out of range. He can call at the time unappropriated for a woman when she is going to bed or sleeping. Boyfriend asks for date a the time comfortable for him and not for her. If a boyfriend doesn’t take a woman's schedule and her family into account, that is a 100% sign that he doesn’t respect a woman and doesn’t consider her seriously, he just uses her to meet his needs and satisfy him.
- A boyfriend is NOT involved in a woman's business, he doesn’t try to help her in solving her issues and problems. He doesn’t ask about the details of her job. He doesn’t try to find out if she is alright or if she needs support and help. So a man isolates himself from a woman’s problems and doesn’t associate them together, because he isn’t ready to create long-term plans with her.
- If a boyfriend lives in another city or county and doesn’t try to accelerate your meeting that way: a man always postpone the date of the visit to a woman’s city, using pressing matters as an excuse. And he doesn’t clarify the certain date of their meeting.
It's obvious that he isn’t going to do it anyway. This conversation at the distance without obligations is too comfortable for him.
The options when a man “invites” a woman, saying: “come to me!” humiliates a woman and equates her status to a status of a “call girl”. We don’t take into account the cases when a man physically can't leave his city due to different reasons, and that's why he invites a woman. In this case the serious purposes of a man are confirmed with his actions: he buys tickets for a woman to a comfortable flight for a woman at a comfortable time for her, he books a hotel room for her or prepare a separated room for her, prepares a detailed plan of their free time together and so on.
- If a boyfriend totally ignores a woman’s desires and opinions, starting from the little things, so there is a 99% guarantee that a boyfriend doesn’t love a woman, but take an advantage of a woman!
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